Brisket & Beyond Blog

If you were at B’nai Moshe on the second day of Rosh Hashanah, you may have witnessed something truly remarkable—something we believe to be not only unique in Metro Detroit, but quite possibly unique in the entire nation. 

And yet, because of the inclusive and familial nature of B’nai Moshe, you may not have even given it a second thought. In many ways, the fact that it felt so natural is exactly what makes the moment so extraordinary.

I’m speaking about the gabbai who led the Torah service on the second day of Rosh Hashanah. The role of gabbai is challenging and essential; the gabbai is, in many respects, the quarterback of the Torah service. Calling each honoree for an aliyah—in Hebrew—requires precision, confidence, and deep familiarity with the liturgy. The gabbai must recite prayers, announce each honoree’s Hebrew name, and offer a mishebeirach (a prayer for health and blessing) for the previous honoree. On the High Holidays, when the text differs significantly from the standard Shabbat liturgy, the task becomes even more demanding.

This year, B’nai Moshe’s lead gabbai on the second day of Rosh Hashanah was Yael Plotnick. Yael, a 21-year-old University of Michigan student who grew up within our congregation, fulfilled this sacred role with poise and skill. Even more impressive, she first took on this responsibility last year—at the age of just 20. Traditionally, the role of gabbai is reserved for clergy or seasoned male ritual leaders. But at B’nai Moshe, that mantle was carried beautifully by a young woman of extraordinary dedication and talent, and we couldn’t be prouder.

We welcome the chance to hear from any other synagogue—anywhere in the country or the world—who can make a similar claim.

Moments like these are only possible in a synagogue that embraces growth, welcomes change, and sees beyond traditional gender expectations. Mazal tov to Yael on a job exceptionally well done, and to our entire community for fostering an environment where such leadership can flourish.