This month I am continuing my discussion about food blessings, focusing now on the
blessings recited after the meal. Once again, I am quoting extensively from the Guide to
Jewish Religious Practice, by Rabbi Isaac Klein, available online at
www.learn.jtsa.edu.
This summer I visited children from the synagogue at Camp Tamarack. I discovered that
the children do two things at lunch--they complain about the food and they sing the birkat
hamazon loudly. Isn't it something that the children are grateful to God even if they don't
particularly enjoy the food. What does this teach us about our obligation to thank God
for the meals that we enjoy even more, in our homes and elsewhere? All the more so
should we conclude our meals with sincere words of blessing.
There are three versions of a "post meal" blessing. For a meal which includes bread, and
therefore begins with hamotzi, one should say the commonly known birkat hamazon,
which consists of four different blessings (I will discuss their meaning below). For a
breadless meal, but one which includes wine, baked goods, or one of the fruits of Israel
(olives, dates, grapes, figs or pomegranates), there is a shorter blessing. When
concluding any other meal or snack, there is a still shorter blessing. These last two can
be found in most complete siddurim and "benchen" booklets.
The first berakhah of birkat hamazon thanks God for providing food for all people,
which is the meaning of its closing words, hazan et hakol. This seems like an obvious
thing to do, since we have just eaten. But there is more to birkat hamazon than just being
thankful for food. The second berakhah not only mentions food, but also expresses
gratitude for the Land of Israel, the Torah and Mitzvot, and our Covenant with God. In
reciting both the first and second berakhot, we are grateful for the universal gift of food,
and the particular gifts to the Jewish people.
The birkat hamazon proceeds to express the Messianic hope that Jerusalem will be
rebuilt. The fourth and final blessing declares that God is tov u'meitiv, the epitome of
goodness.
Birkat Hamazon therefore recalls four important milestones in Jewish history--the
granting of manna to Moses and the Israelites in the desert, the conquest of Canaan under
Joshua, the building of Jerusalem under David and Solomon, and the compassion God
showed to the slain of Betar under Bar Kochba.
Each time we complete a meal, it is fitting that we reflect on our gratitude, not only for
the food, but also for the totality of Jewish history. The birkat hamazon is actually a
mini-service of its own, and in just a few minutes time one is able to express the themes
which are a part of every Jewish prayer service.
I urge you all to linger at the table for a few extra minutes to participate in the ritual of
birkat hamazon, to declare gratitude for food, but also for life itself, for Torah and Israel,
for God's eternal and compassionate role in Jewish history, and to express hope in the
future. If you have trouble getting through the entire text, start with a few words, and
when you are comfortable, add a few more. Holiness is a ladder upon which we can all
climb higher each day.